You and I need to realize that until the time our mind is in duality we are in trouble. You/I cannot function properly in this way. If we are questioning ourselves are we going east? or are we going west? If we cannot decide which way we are going.....definitely we will just sit and wait somewhere.We will neither go to the east or the west.This is called the duality of our mind.
Duality is a waste of time and this life is a gift to be happy and loving every second.